In the wee hours of the morning, a little babe came earth-side. So much fierce strength and endurance from mama! An amazing midwife helped her bring the babe down and out. Beautiful birth. Good Lord I missed this!
I am moving into my last week of Maternal-Newborn and feelings are bittersweet. I want so badly to stay right here in my comfort zone of birth, babies and mothers; however I must move forward into new classes to finish out my degree. I’m down to 8 months of school left and I will officially be a RN, BSN! Wow. That is so crazy to write! I have been on this road now for FIVE years. YES, 5! I was pregnant with my daughter when I started my pre-recs and the month I graduate she will turn 5.
The beginning of August was rough. I was so excited to have started clinicals in the hospital! But I had come down with a nasty virus that turned into a sinus infection and I missed two weeks of school and clinical! My heart was broken! I was miserable and also, I turned 33 so I spent my birthday not feeling so hot. A few days before my birthday, B took me to a tattoo shop and I got a tattoo I have been wanting for years! I had not decided where I wanted it until just a few days prior and I can honestly say I am so happy with it! What did I get?!?
Everyone asks if it hurt-it was uncomfortable but actually painful? Not really. This is on the inside of my right bicep. The line work is incredible!
This special tattoo could have not come at a more perfect time. I was in my Maternal-Newborn class and gearing up to help women labor and give birth! After I was cleared to return to clinical from being sick, I spent 2 days in L&D and saw two beautiful births. One cesarean and one vaginal (no epidural-just some IV fentanyl). Both births made me feel like I was home, like I was right where I needed to be. My heart was full, my mind was growing with knowledge and happiness. It was wonderful.
I have 4 more days in clinical and then this class is officially over. I head into Population health and then Peds for this fall semester.
Thanks for checking in and sticking around with me! Two more semesters and I’m done! 😉
I never sign these things. I am not one to get all up in arms about petitions and change and such–unless I feel strongly about it. And maybe there just hasn’t been a petition out there that has stirred me so much, until now. The Coalition for Safer Home Birth was started on Change.org to encourage our legislatures to recognize the safety standards that are lacking in home birth. The coalition does a wonderful job summarizing exactly where the issues in home birth safety rest which largely is in the hands of the home birth midwife who is lacking a certain level of education. I feel that it is best for me to leave you to read what the coalition has written as I could not have said it any better so I won’t even try.
And maybe, if you feel moved enough, if you want to see change, sign the petition.
Two births. Two mamas. Two babies. Two nights ago. I finally witnessed two vaginal births in person. No more you tube! There is nothing like it. Birth in person is something of its own outside of my own births and watching one on TV. I’m still having a hard time finding my words to describe how amazing they both were, but the point is that I have no seen it and everything I have felt in my heart without ever having seen a birth in person (outside of the OR) has been reaffirmed. I’d be lying if I said I was afraid that I’d go through all this hard work in school and find out it wasn’t what I wanted. Not the case. This is exactly what I want.
Have you heard of improving birth? Have you heard of the blog Improving Birth? As a huge birth advocate, I am always trying to figure out ways to improve birth in our country. How can I become an asset? How can I provoke change? How can I teach and encourage women?? These questions will always be asked until there IS change. That is what Improving Birth is all about. I found an article posted back in December that I wish I could have written. If I had written it, these are the words I would have used. And because I love how well this is written, I am posting it word for word with a link, rather than just linking it. Thank you, Improving Birth, and all birth advocates who are working to make a change.
Cristen Pascucci, a political and communications specialist, recently joined Improving Birth’s executive board.
Elective C-section? Ocean waterbirth? Seriously, go nuts.
You may think that because I chose (and fought) to give birth with no drugs in a hospital, I think everyone should. Or, that because I rant and rave about our bloated surgical birth and artificial induction rates, that I would do away with these medical interventions.
First and fundamentally, I believe that it’s your body, your baby, your birth. There are many options around birth, and I hope you avail yourself of them–and when you do, it’s none of my business. There is no one-size-fits-all birth. I have friends who have given birth across the spectrum from homebirth with no access to pain medication, to a planned epidural at 2 cm dilation, to full-blown elective “convenience” surgery scheduled months ahead, and I stand firmly behind each of those women in their human right to make their own decisions.
For me and my baby, a drug-free birth was of the utmost importance. It was for personal reasons, really, not because I’m some flaming hippie who doesn’t believe in hospital voodoo. It was a choice I made and prepared for because I knew it was the best thing for both of us–mostly my baby–that had absolutely nothing to do with being anti-medication or anti-establishment.
Second, these medical interventions save lives when used appropriately. That is why they were created in the first place. Sure, their overuse contributes to more dangerous conditions for moms and babies, but when they are used prudently and out of necessity, they preserve life. In the U.S., in theory, we have the resources to have the best possible outcomes.
What IS important, and what I care deeply about, is that you go into birth with your eyes wide open; that your decisions are based on full and accurate information; that you understand the risks, benefits, and alternatives of your various birth options; that you work with your care provider, and that he or she respects and supports your wishes.
Birth doesn’t always go according to plan, which is why it’s not enough to create a “birth plan” and call it a day. Sure, most of the time it is safe, but that doesn’t mean it’s predictable. It’s very possible, even likely, that you and your support team will be called upon to make decisions during labor. It’s these gametime decisions that can make the difference between a positive experience and a traumatic, dangerous, or disappointing one. There may not be time at that point for in-depth explanations about the risks, benefits, and safety of various interventions or procedures, so you’ve got to be informed ahead of time of what might come up.
And, probably even more important, you’ve got to have a support team who is on the same page.
If you go into birth unprepared, you are placing your dignity and the safety of your self and your baby directly in the hands of people you may have never met and who may or may not respect you and your wishes. It could go either way. It’s a huge risk to take.
A good example of this is my own birth story: when my care provider was strongly suggesting to me a procedure (an artificial induction at close to 42 weeks pregnancy) that was NOT the only or even the safest option. I was lucky enough to have better information that allowed me to make a different decision, for a different outcome, that I firmly believe was the safest for me and my baby. But a little less preparation on my part, and it never would have happened. What happened with my care provider happens all too often.
I say all this to say that what is truly important, and I think a lot of “birth advocates” would agree with me about, is that you are prepared, informed, and supported in whatever you desire. You can’t make decisions about what’s best and safest for the two of you if you aren’t informed and supported. And information and support don’t happen on their own.
When you’re educating yourself about these decisions, you might be surprised at what the evidence shows: surgical birth increases your chances of death by six times, but it can also save your life. Epidurals can prevent a surgery, just as they can increase the odds of your having to have it. Natural, unmedicated birth can be the safest option, or it can be impossible. Every one of these things has lasting effects. How will you navigate these choices?
Remember: ”If you don’t know your options, you don’t have any.”
So, no, I don’t care how you give birth, as long as it’s your way–and I trust that, as your baby’s mother, you’ve made certain that “your way” thoughtfully considers the best scientific evidence, supported and vetted by your care provider. (Here is a wonderful summary of the current best evidence for common birth practices and procedures.) The final decisions about your baby and his or her birth lie with you, the person who is ultimately most invested in your own and your baby’s safety and best care.
And I hope you have the safest, most wonderful experience you can have, bringing your baby into the world.
Summer is here! I’m on a huge break from things like school and work because of the squishy little babe who is sleeping next to me as I type. I took a long break from the blog and I’m ready to be more active here. So hello to old and new followers!
My school schedule has shifted around come this fall. Due to personal and work-related reasons, I have to post-pone some classes, but thankfully I don’t have to take the semester off entirely. Being a full time working mama with an incredible husband and home to care for makes going to school really difficult. However, that won’t be stopping me! I am determined to keep going and I’m so thankful I have an awesome support system. Due to the timing and duration, I am able to obtain my CNA in about 8 weeks. I will also take another short-term class online called Customer Service in Health Care. This class will be really beneficial no matter what field of health care I end up in! I feel that I have already learned so much about ethics, empathy, and the business side of patient care that this will only enhance the skills I already have.
One of my favorite things to post is links to really awesome, interesting, educational, controversial, etc type articles, blogs and photos. So, here are some great links to check out!
- Birth Stories: Michelle Garey Photography. She just posted some incredible c-section photographs. Truly beautiful!
- Breastfeeding Laws. This site lists all the laws, state and federal for breastfeeding women, mostly in public and work places. Now that I do this on the reg, it’s nice to know the laws.
- Still Birth Day. This is a very powerful, moving site. It’s not easy to read about little babes lost too soon, but the stories are inspiring and up-lifting. Those mamas who have experienced a loss are so incredibly strong.